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[quote=Anonymous]Take breath, get some distance and perspective, and go easy on each other. parenthood is long, and hard. this petty stuff will seem like nothing in a few years, and you will both grow and change as parents in time. having a sister, and close in age cousins, locally, is very special, and will be a huge gift to your kids in the long run. new motherhood is so fraught, and all these criticisms come from a place of insecurity. you feel judged by her, and I am pretty sure she feels the same way- your tone comes across as very judgmental, even if you don't realize it- and I wonder if she is reacting against these perceived judgments. try to be kind, and when that is too hard take a break and get some space. [/quote]
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