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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You know this is not about breathing, right? By the time someone snaps, there has been some sort of build-up that caused the person to "explode".

I think this is a sign to sit down and have a serious conversation; check in with him and have a talk about happiness and where you both stand in the relationship.

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I would tend to agree, OP.  Everyone had a lot of together time over the course of the pandemic.  The mental health side is going to go on for much longer than the virus itself.  My DH and I had several cathartic conversations this weekend and I think we have a future, but I was questioning it for a while as he had distanced himself in ways that made me feel abandoned.  But you have to have that conversation first.  It took a while for me to be able to have a productive discussion - it was prompted by a family get together, just some things that happened that made it all come out.  Try to talk about how you worry about what's going on and how you love him.  I ended up pulling up a photo of my DH when he gave me flowers on our anniversary a few years ago.  It is the sweetest expression on his face - loving and wanting to please me. This past year - no flowers.  Anyway, I showed him that photo and told him I miss that guy.  It helped a lot to show him what I long for, and something that was positive about him.  [/quote]

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