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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh my goodness. She probably focuses more time and attention chatting with others in a group setting BECAUSE she is closest to you and talks to you every day. I mean, she knows what’s going on in your life already, and vice versa. And you’re put out that she’s using time to catch up with others that she doesn’t talk to as often? You’re a lot. You sound very needy and insecure. [/quote] Yes, I could definitely see this dynamic at play. I think, OP, we need to know if your unease in groups comes from your friend (1) putting you down, cutting off/interrupting you, teasing you (passive aggressive), or (2) being inattentive, focusing on others, not eliciting your comments (socializing with others). Neither dynamic would be "in your head" or imagined, but I think they are pretty radically different in terms of your relationship, and the latter could just boil down to different socializing styles.[/quote]
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