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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you have anything in writing about the loan?  Even texts or emails?  If you do, dump him and take him to small claims court. [/quote]

I might. I definitely have receipts for things that make no logical sense I would purchase for myself (appliances installed at his house, spring break expenses for his child, etc). But he could argue these were gifts, I guess.

I think PP is right: write it off, and move on with my life.[/quote]

It wasn't even for an emergency, like getting evicted or electricity being shut off or a car breaking down? He borrowed money to take HIS kid on spring break?

Tell him you're going to talk to his ex.[/quote]

Needing to borrow money to get new appliances and pay for his kid's spring break is a red flag tbh. This guy is either broke or doesn't know how to manage his money and either way you don't want to be more deeply involved with his problems.

No wonder he doesn't want to pay it back and gets mad when you ask him - his finances are so precarious he probably [i]can't[/i] pay it back. Which is sad, but ultimately you don't want that to be your problem as well as his.[/quote]

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