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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would try to slowly borrow it back. If it’s an ego thing and he can’t acknowledge he borrowed it, maybe you can appeal to the part of him that wants to be powerful and in control — he may “lend” you part of the balance.[/quote] This. So sorry OP. I lent money to a work friend once. I had to scream at her to give it back to me before I quit. I knew I would never see it after I left the job. I got lucky and she borrowed about three quarters of it from another coworker and gave me. I cut my losses on the rest. It was about 3k so I got over 2k back. [b]I never lend anyone money unless I am 100% ok with losing it.[/b] I tell them I am lending but it's really a gift. If they pay back, then its a surprise gift for me. [/quote] This is exactly how I feel. If you lend someone some money, assume you will never see it again. If you can't afford to do that, then don't lend them the money. Cut your losses and exit ASAP. [/quote]
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