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[quote=Anonymous]I'd break up with him immediately - for the ultimatum and the pressure to meet your kid right now. He definitely doesn't understand the impact of being a kid and meeting a parent's SO for the first time and doesn't respect that dynamic - or your kid. The red flags are pre-cursors to more manipulations / more emotional tugging / controlling behaviors leading to many scenarios. Maybe you've been fortunate enough not to have experienced them but the road to all abuses start from emotional manipulations and control. It's not too dramatic to tell you - get out. NOW. You don't want the same behavior displayed toward your kid. He's already shown you he is not the right partner for you - or your kid. I wish more would see the signs and actually do something about it, before it's too late. I hope you do after seeing some of these posts. His behavior after 3 months is alarming.[/quote]
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