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[quote=Anonymous]His dealbreaker should be your dealbreaker. You invite him to your Thanksgiving when you want to share him with your family, and you want to share your family with him. Not when he demands. Not when your sibling demands. When YOU are ready. So, for me this always was -- immediately. Holiday? You are invited. But that meant that somebody might not come more than once to a family party. That was OK for me. For a cousin I was close with, it meant she never invited anybody ... until she invited the man she ultimately married. Also OK. You find what you want and need. And proceed from there. Don't hide it, be transparent. Talk with your BF. He has a right to his dealbreaker ... but it shouldn't be what drives you. [/quote]
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