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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This wouldn’t work for me unless bf invited me to join. Keeping such traditions alive so close to their divorce is a bit of a red flag (and he can show her support and compassion on other ways.)[/quote]

I agree.  While it's great that he can have a good relationship with the mother of his kids, this kind of activity isn't one you do with an ex that doesn't include the current romantic partner.  It's too close to their divorce and, as a PP noted, everyone will be looking at it as the first step of a reconciliation.  There are other ways for him to show support/compassion that doesn't send the same message. [/quote]

who cares what some meddling relatives may or may not think? a lot of times, family vacations - especially those that are at traditional locations— are some of the best time of the year with your kids. even if your relationship is completely over, getting to be relaxed and take it slow with your kids, seeing them bond with cousins, is wonderful and nourishing. inviting the ex likley just means that this traditional vacation is a good experience for all - it doesn’t say anything at about the relationship between the exes, except that they are able to put aside their differences for the sake of the kids. yes it’s a bit awkward if OP isn’t included yet, but that was a mutual agreement. I can understand why OP would feel jealous but it would be extremely petty to interfere. [/quote]

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