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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like you despised him already and this is just bringing it to a head.[/quote]

After two years of his constant complaining about me not wanting sex (after trying and trying with no "end" in sight), yes - I do despise him. So tired of getting the finger pointed at me when ultimately it's his issue that is the underlying problem. He doesn't see it this way. [/quote]

But this isn’t true. It is both of you. He is clearly stating what he wants, “I want you to initiate sex.” And you are telling him no. That is not how a partnership works. You have to keep putting in the effort. Sex is psychological just as much as physical. He wants to be wanted. You don’t like sex if it feels like a chore and neither does he. It is pretty hard to stop a medication when it feels so right in other areas. Is he able to pleasure himself to completion? After being together so long, how are the both of you spicing things up? Toys? Lingerie? Different places? Different positions? You can not blame it all on him. Sorry. [/quote]
Medication is a valid reason. Booze is not. I wouldn’t have respect for someone who behaved like this either.[/quote]

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