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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have no stats for you, but I can assure you that it's more common than you imagine. I ran across plenty of normal, couple-next-door types when I was briefly testing out the scene (not currently in it), including the usual DMV types: international organization workers, feds, embassy staff, congressional staffers, successful entrepreneurs, professional suburban couples with kids, all types, really. And, contrary to the common assertions by scandalized, judgy DCUM posters, not a bunch of creepers or weirdos or unattractive people. I, for example, am a typical DC fed professional mom, attractive, well-educated, well-adjusted. Just wanted to see what a freer sexual environment was like. I have no idea what the scene is like now, post-pandemic. But a few years ago there was no scarcity of events and venues to check out the scene.[/quote]

How did you break into this scene and find other like minded couples?[/quote]

At the time, there were regular events that I heard about ... wait for it ... in the now-defunct explicit forum.  :lol:  There was a local group with a website, Entre Nous, that had weekly meet-and-greet parties. These were dance parties at regular venues in DC, either they rented the entire place or a private room. These were NOT sex parties. No nudity, no sex. Just for meeting other couples. They also sponsored events at private venues where people could hook up. There's a guy who still hosts these expensive, sexy event-style parties that were a lot of fun when I attended. Again, parties at regular venues in the city. Live music, performers, sexy stuff, but no public sex. They were fun to meet others who were "open", dance 
 or make out with other people. There's also an established swinger's club outside of Baltimore that I went to a couple of times, Tabu. Also met other couples through Feeld and SLS. I've been out of the scene for a few years, so I have no idea what the current apps for non-monogamous dating/swinging, but I'm sure the internet will update you, haha.

Like a PP said, it can be thrilling. Not much needs to happen for you to get a little extra zing to spice up your relationship. I wasn't having sex with random strangers at these events. It was more about meeting, flirting, dancing, maybe making out with others along with your partner. It turned me on to see him flirt and dance with other women. We did get to the point where we connected with other couples. There doesn't have to be any "swapping." Sometimes it was more about group seduction, but no actual sex with anyone but my partner.

I don't care to argue with the doubters, haha. All I've written is true. Take it or not.[/quote]

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