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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Think about when he's dead - will you be happy about how you handled things?

I mean, I've heard people say "I'd give anything for one more day with my [dead relative]" but I've never heard anyone say "I wish I'd spent more time working."

You can build a business. You can't get time back with a relative. [/quote]

Focus on regret minimization and your relationship with your dad and  block out all the noise like your stepmother.  How will your 10 years older self feel about how you handled your father's end of life?  We can't answer that for you because we don't know your history with your father.  You also have a husband and child to think about, and what a blessing that your husband is willing to support you if you do leave to care for your dad (not saying that is the right move, but it's a huge plus).  Another plus is that you are setting an example for your child on how to treat her parents if/when they get sick someday.  Good luck.   [/quote]

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