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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I knew that were a lot of nasty people on DCUMs but why are you so nasty? He has never flown alone and hasn’t flown more than 2-3 times in his life. Not everyone has money to fly their kids around on their own. He asked me if I was coming to the gate and I had no idea if it was allowed. Thanks to those who answered the question without being a jerk. [/quote]

But how is he going to learn to fly on his own if you don’t let him figure it out. By the time I was 18 I was backpacking through Europe alone. As a millennial female. One time I bought a train ticket to the wrong city in Poland and had to get a new ticket without speaking a lick of Polish. Drop him off early enough for him to fix it if he screws up and let him learn. [/quote]

NP.  There seems to be a difference.  You seemed to be a millennial who came from a wealthier family such that you had traveled by plane regularly.  By the time you were 18, how many times had you flown through an airport with your parents?  Probably a dozen times?  Then the drill was a lot more familiar for you.

OP's son has flown 2-3 times in his life always accompanied.  If the last time was not particularly recently, it might be good for him to have someone with him.  I was like him and when I flew in high school, I was accompanied by my older sister.  When I went to college at 18, then I started flying solo.

As a parent, you have to gauge the maturity of your children individually and do what you think is best for their level of maturity.  Forcing a child or young adult who is not ready into some model of maturation that other children/young adults are ready for is not in their best interest.

Kudos for being a more mature young adult.  Stop projecting and just answer OP's question.[/quote]

Actually I came from an LMC family (camped every vacation) but necessity is the mother of invention. I bet OP’s son could handle everything I did if he had to. [/quote]

Yes, very rich or very poor kids are able to handle things on their own when travelling. Very rich kids because they are exposed to traveling, booking into hotels, transportation, asking for upgrades etc, because they are exposed to it.  Very poor because they are usually raising themselves and are used to hustling for even the basic things in life.  It is the middle class kids who are a bit sheltered and are cautious.  No harm in that though.  Travelling is not rocket science and after doing it once, your kid will be more confident.  It is very sweet that you are accomodating him. I would do the same for both my kids.  [/quote]

So now LMC kids who fly rarely growing up are “very poor”! Never change DCUM. [/quote]

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