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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I’m the PP who talked about scapegoating. My ILs do the same thing. They do something hurtful or get upset with something I did or didn’t do, then they talk to my DH about it and usually cap things off with the silent treatment for a period of time. When they’re done being mad, they then act like nothing happened and expect me to do the same. Just play along and never share anything meaningful with them. It’s better this way, trust me.[/quote] OP again. Thanks for your feedback. I wish my DH had questioned his sister about her silent treatment of me (not speaking, blocking me), but he didn't. I get that DH felt like he was in an awkward position given that the original question asked in the group text was about their mother, who they all adore (and who is a very nice lady). I just thought that they overreacted in a childish way.[/quote]
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