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[quote=Anonymous]My SIL and I have a big blowup a few years ago where she just started berating me over nothing. (It followed on a couple of years where she’d been sort of nasty to me, for reasons I never understood.) aWe are now in a space where we are cordial, do things like family parties in the same space, etc. I will never trust her and I will never like her again. But it’s best for everyone involved, including my parents, my siblings, my kids and their cousins, that we just outwardly pretend it never happened. I don’t forget though. And I have some lingering resentment that my own siblings didn’t stand up for me more but I need to let that go. We aren’t a confrontational group, as a family, and I’m sure they didn’t want to put my brother in a bad situation where he ended up estranged. But it drives me nuts that everyone acts like she’s a great person when she’s really a nasty bully. [/quote]
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