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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly, your post is pointless. There is nothing you can do…. You give zero details so how are we supposed to offer advice? If it is something like she is really sick and will die and before then, her health, look or mobility may change then we could offer advise on how to prepare your kids but again, you told us nothing… you say she has told people widely but you can’t give the bare minimum on here? [/quote]

The point of OP’s post was obviously a cry in the night for help, the kind of existential help we all seek when a dear one is in peril. OK? She’s worried. She’s seeking reassurance that obviously no one can guarantee. What we can say, we have. Be kind. Just tell her to say a prayer, hope for the best, hold off on any action or decision until she knows the outcomes or next steps, and tell her you hope all will be well. That’s kind.

I hope all will be well, OP. You’re not in control, and that is scary. But I hope there is some relief knowing that this is not in your hands, and all you can do, you are doing.[/quote]

Thank you. You are 100% correct. I can’t talk to friends because they are also upset. A lot of my friends who don’t know this person are out of town on vacation, and I’m not sure if I should talk to them about it anyway.

This person has had health scares before and I took food but my gut says to lay low given the situation now. During a previous situation, a sibling of the sick person connected with me to facilitate help, so I have that in mind.

I considered sending a note to the spouse but feel like it might be overwhelming to that person.

All anyone can do is wait and pray, I guess.

Today, I plan to bury myself in work so I don’t think about it. I’m leaving town soon and will reach out to my therapist afterward.

Thank you to all who provided support.

PS: A few posters lack empathy. Yikes. [/quote]

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