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[quote=Anonymous]My husband was forced to retire. For the last two years we have been together 24/7. I was NOT used to having anyone home with me sharing my free 12 hour days. He always got on my nerves.
But once I let go of my anxiety about him being here, I actually enjoyed being with him. He had a lot of anxiety too. He was at his company 35 years. Once the shock wore off he started cooking, cleaning, washing clothes, mowing and trimming when he felt like it. He was getting up at 5 reach morning during his work life. Going to bed at 9. Now he sleeps in until 7:30. Believe me, that is sleeping in for him. He grocery shops, manages projects for the house, something he's very good at. Once I lowered my standards and quit caring about how he did things his way, I felt a calmness. 
I thought it would be all about me but it really is all about him. He is a totally different person and I like this person alot.
Life is what you make of it. When you decide love over rules everything, you two will click. That is a true partnership. [/quote]

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