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Reply to "DW does EVERYTHING at home and complains constantly??"
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[quote=Anonymous]This was my mom. She was a perfectionist who constantly nitpicked on my dad, my brother, and myself, and then complained that none of us wanted to help out in the kitchen. It was very unpleasant around her. My dad basically stopped trying. She'd use me as her therapist and dump all her grievances on me. I became mindful after my own marriage not to be a maytr. I bite my tongue and don't micromanage my DH when he does things around the house. My brother, who coped with our mom by not doing any chores, eventually did become a more equitable partner in his marriage by focusing on things that played to his strength. So I say there's hope yet for children of such dysfunctional family dynamic. [/quote]
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