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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m your husband and often wonder if I have adhd and or executive functioning issues. You are my husband…he doesn’t get how I can function. [b]The reality is we function well, just on different timelines. [/b]I tend to have clarity on exactly what I need to do when I am under pressure. Problem solving is my favorite part of work. I get that it’s hard to work with but it doesn’t mean that we are less capable or lazy. It’s constant work to tone down our natural inclinations. Do you know his Myers Briggs? I’m an ESTP and I’m wondering if he is too. [/quote] Those timelines on which you’re functioning well are hugely inconsiderate to everyone else. At the point where you’re holding up work and family priorities you are not functioning “well”. I just had to drop someone from a project even though her work was excellent— she routinely sent things to people at 2am. Those people and their work matter too, not just hers.[/quote]
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