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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you should ask her what's up. If it's something she can't talk about, she can say that, or if she's flaky, she can say that too (she knows, believe me). She could be like me, people call and email but I really only respond to texts, and so somehow you're just connecting in the way she needs. She could be like me, too, b/c in the last few months I blew off a woman I connected with (and her son is the same age as mine) b/c it's too early in my PG to tell anyone and I've been rushed to emergency apptmts. No warning. And no way to contact people or tell them later why I 'flaked'. Which is why I need to email this potential friend. And fortunately it looks like baby and I are going to make it.[/quote]

You don't get to decide that you only respond to texts.  Even if a medical emergency arises, you need to acknowledge that you blew her off. Grow up.[/quote]

Actually, she does "get to" make that decision for herself, regardless of what you think.  On the other hand, her friends/acquaintances also "get to" decide if they want to keep trying to make plans with her.  I've been on both sides of this coin, and as the non-responder I do often miss out on something fun because I didn't check my voicemail in time, or that I don't get to see friends as often as I'd like because I'm a flake.  [/quote]

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