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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If he knows you will criticize and point out deficiencies it would only make him more reluctant to take things on, back off a bit and be OK with 40-50% for a while and you’ll see that things will greatly improve. Although it shouldn’t be this is a management issue, back off, let him get up to speed and you’ll have a real partner but huffing and taking tasks away from him isn’t going to get you anywhere. [/quote] Yea, I do certainly recognize my own deficiencies of course including most namely the pattern of criticizing and then subsequently him pulling away. I definitely have tried this approach and it is disappointing that he just never can get up to speed, step up or get close to being the partner that anyone would want. [/quote]
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