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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why are you divorcing now vs. when you're financially ready to support yourself? Short of abuse, I would wait until my job prospects have significantly improved. I think you are living in some lala land.[/quote] This. If there is abuse, then you need to get your ducks in a row first. Make sure you can prove it and get awarded full custody. Sometimes it can take severe abuse for a judge to deprive a parent of custody, more than you might think. The last thing you want to do is hand over your kids to your husband every week when you're not even there to protect them. (Assuming abuse even applies). If abuse doesn't apply, then you need to put your kids first and stick it out until you can provide for yourself and them. You don't even earn enough money to support yourself and it doesn't sound like you have a huge asset portfolio to split. [/quote]
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