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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=baltimoreguy]I'm a 50-year-old man stepping into online dating for the first time.

I am looking for a woman who is looking for a submissive man. This is essentially a requirement for a relationship for me and so I'm wondering how explicit to be in my profile. I'm considering 3 different approaches:

1. State it outright
2. Frame it in figurative language (and maybe some acronyms like FLR) that an experienced dominant is likely to pick up on but might pass unnoticed by others
3. Be extremely oblique/don't mention it at all

In online dating, how often do you come across people that you know in real life? I worry that in a smaller city like Baltimore, particularly in my age range, it's fairly likely that someone I know will see my profile. So I guess I'm trying to thread a needle of finding someone who's looking for the same things as I am without sacrificing my privacy. Is that an impossible wish?[/quote]

I'm a 35 year old guy and would be totally in!![/quote]

Except OP is a man looking for a woman.[/quote]

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