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[quote=Anonymous]DH is gorgeous and I’m chubby and not attractive. We have a great marriage and fantastic sex life. For people who place the highest value on appearance, it’s difficult to understand people who don’t. DH doesn’t just want arm candy. We get along great, we laugh and play, love exploring the world together, and deeply love each other. Part of this is how important being attractive is to the unattractive partner as well. I feel like I have so many other great treats and value myself for those. I don’t care that random men don’t ogle me. And I certainly don’t care what random women think of me. Despite DCUM myth, I unattractive women can have successful, filling lives. I make a great salary. I’m respected in my field. I love parenting my kids. And DH and I never run out of things to talk about - when he travels we talk on the phone for over an hour a day. It’s just a different priority with external appearance being one piece of it. [/quote]
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