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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I say this with kindness and without judgment: You need to put out before your husband starts looking elsewhere.

Find a babysitter to watch the kids and take an evening for yourselves each week. If you’re still uneasy with your body for whatever reason tell him that. Think of it as a time to perfect your bj skills. Men just operate differently than women it’s normal but you have to compromise. At this point it’s been a year with very little goodies I can understand his frustration. [/quote]

+1[/quote]

+2 and I was like you are now, OP, for almost 2.5 years. That's how long I nursed. Once I stopped, my drive came back, but I never made the connection.

Another example from my life is a very good friend of mine who had  few drinks and proceeded hit on me while his wife was pregnant with their second kid. Obviously I sat him down and had a little talk about his wife and what she's going through. But trust me that my friend is NOT normally the type, loves his wife, and now feels horrible (and we've had a few awkward months of basically no contact but are fine now).

Humans are animals. Of course, we have self control and language and many other things, but to pretend we are not animals is a big risk.[/quote]

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