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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He’s ridiculous. He should be helping you with the twins and helping you get pelvic PT to recover from your birth, not harassing you for sex. Sorry but you’re at the start of a long marathon, and if you don’t get time to relax and rest now you will be extremely depleted by the end of the year. Tell him what you need to feel rested and healed and put yourself first. He’s an idiot if he doesn’t see what you need.[/quote]

Sex is a part of marriage and this is a terrible opinion. No man is thinking of helping their wives get pelvic PT.  :lol: Get outta here! Sex can take a few minutes at minimum, it really ain't that hard to do.[/quote]

This is a terrible attitude.

My H went into the postpartum period expecting that sex would be infrequent for months as I recovered and as we took care of an infant together. He absolutely would have helped me get pelvic floor therapy if needed.

Because he was so understanding and never pressured me, we got to once a week pretty quickly, and eventually got back to 5-6 times a week that we averaged before kids. Had I felt that he only cared about sex and not about my comfort and needs, I would not have been as interested as quickly.

On the other side of things, I do know women whose husbands pressured them into sex quickly after birth, and pressured them to have it more than they were comfortable with. Years down the road, those women have lost interest in their husbands entirely.

Men who only think about their penises are incredibly unattractive. [/quote]

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