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[quote=Anonymous]I had my first and only in my late 40s and no regrets at all. I didn't plan it that way and always thought I would have 2-3 kids in my early 30s but that didn't work out. I agree with the advantages listed by PPs here. I am much more mature, patient, and most things don't faze me. I have done most things I wanted to do when before having kids so never felt like I was missing certain social events when DS was still very young. Another plus that I realized after the fact, is I am more secure financially and career-wise so don't feel the pressure of work as much as I would have when younger.

Having a young DS has helped keep me active and fit. I haven't had any problems keeping up with DS activities and sports. I think in a way he has made me pay more attention to my health and wellness. None of us are guaranteed old age but I am doing my bit to stay as healthy as possible.

A couple of downsides, all my friends have older kids so that limits some things I can do with friends and their kids e.g. can't go to the playground together with their kids. I now have newer mum friends that I made through kids school and activities that I do kid things with so, be prepared to have a newer set of friends through your kid(s). Also my parents were quite old when I finally had my kids so they couldn't have the kids over for a weekend or do much babysitting like they did with my other nieces and nephews. On the other hand he is adored and loved by his older nieces and nephews who often spoil him so there are pluses here too.

Anyway 35 is not considered old any more for having kids so you will find tons parents in your age group. [/quote]

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