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You're very aggressive and rude to OP, and you need to understand that you can't hold everyone to your own lofty standards of socialization. OP seems to be have another type of intelligence - she's a litigation attorney, for goodness' sakes! Can't you understand that someone who has that job might not be the best person to make small talk and fake interest in someone who is actively trying to insert themselves in her marriage?

You've also internalize a lot of misogyny, if you're capable of writing: "I find it a sign of low intelligence in women who cannot fake a good relationship with their ILs." Every woman is different. Just because YOU are good at smoothing over communication problems doesn't mean it's the duty of all women. There are women doctors and women scientists and women lawyers and women CEOs who don't have time for that sh1t.
Get over yourself.

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Nowhere did OP say they were a woman, so your scolding post makes a lot of assumptions. The same advice about getting along to go along would apply to either gender. Having prickly relationships with inlaws when there are other options is a sign of emotional immaturity. Whether one is a hard charging litigation attorney or not.[/quote]

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