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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I guess I was never an idealist who thought "this could never happen to me" so it wasn't a total shock that my attractive, wealthy DH strayed. It wasn't a deep profession of love long-term affair. It takes time to heal and I suppose I will never fully trust him but I would never fully trust any man. Men are men. The devil you know. And I am not giving up my house, full-time access to kids, financial stability because he filled some stupid urge with another woman.[/quote]

This right here, and my DH is not even wealthy. I have never been cheated on by my DH, and i would be devastated if it happened. However, there is no man like my DH. No one can love my children like he does, in either action or words. And he definitely loves me too. An affair cannot change that. I'd rather be sad and my children get to see both parents everyday than be sad and seeing my children only on certain days. There's no way I'd be happier if my children had to split time between their dad and me. I'd rather not trust him under the same roof.

Like PP said, the devil you know. I am sticking with this one.

Now physical abuse is a separate issue. I would be out the door before he blinks.[/quote]

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