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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your husband needs to tell his sisters to take you off this chart. If they challenge him, tell him to ask them to show where their own spouses are listed on this schedule. [/quote] OP here. I am not on the chart at the moment. My husband is. The husband of one SIL is on the chart. The husband of the other SIL is no longer in the picture. [/quote] It sounds like everyone but you is stepping up. Also it sounds like your husband is doing less than his sisters are each doing - they are doing at least double what he’s doing. So basically your family is not pulling its share of the work. So I can see why they are asking you to step in. Also for the reasons everyone else said, your parents situation is not the same as your in laws. Ultimately it’s your decision. [/quote]
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