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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]some of you people are really ignorant and stupid. there's nothing creepy about the situation.  i am helping out a friend, and I'm starting to care about her as more than a friend, simple as that! Jesus Christ.

IF YOU DONT HAVE ANYTHING HELPFUL TO CONTRIBUTE THEN KEEP YOUR BULLSHIT OPINIONS TO YOURSELF! it blows my mind how stupid and ignorant so many people are. THIS IS NOT ABOUT SEX OR AND INSTANT FAMILY!  God people are stupid!!  this is a desperate girl who had nothing, she cry's on my shoulder when she has her moments, texts me all day long, always wants to know what I'm doing and when I'm coming home. wants to have dinner with me every night, wants to watch tv with me, and about 6 of her girlfriends come to see her a few times a week. they all know me well.

we never dated before, i didnt start to have feelings for her until after she moved in.  i dont hit on her, i dont make comments, i leave the room if she's breast feeding, she's giving me mixed signals I'm quietly trying to deal with my new feelings for her. and I'm not asking her for anything, I'm not giving her ultimatums. this is not about sex!. i want something real with this girl if there is an option.

also, if she wants nothing but a friendship then thats fine. i am just trying to understand what she might want. i enjoy her company, her kid is great.  she's just giving me mixed signals.

she's getting a jog
her kid will be in day care
she will start paying rent in a month or so. she came to me with nothing.

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Mixed signals? Dude this isn’t hard to figure out. She wanted someone to rescue her and she’s playing the role of girlfriend to keep you interested and ensure you keep taking care of her. I did this myself when I left an abusive husband, latched onto the first guy who showed me any interest then bailed later on when I realized I didn’t have feelings for *him*, I just wanted a way out.

Trust me, I went through this myself, what she needs is to become independent. Support her as a friend, but know that her feelings for you aren’t genuine, and everyone here is right that you should not get involved.

Treat her the exact same way you would a male friend. [/quote]

thank you, see now this is helpful

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