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[quote=Anonymous]I have a kid about this age with a similar dynamic with one friend, as well. Part of it is that the other friend likes to show off for adults, a bit -- hard to put it into words but she kind of craves being the center of attention (my child does not). I set big boudaries with my DD in advance on what is on or off the table -- for example, don't even ask about making slime after the previous distaster. But not too a more detailed level, it's just a waste of effort IMO. Then if I am being roped in on the play date, I give a firm boundary in the moment. If they have been rehearsing a dance, I'll agree to watch it for them 1x, or whatever. I have no problem to saying no to being part of the activity and OP, I think you just firmly say no and move on. Making snacks, that I don't mind at all. [/quote]
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