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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How old are you? Is this your first relationship? [/quote]

Op: no I’ve been previously married and lots of boyfriends but I recently started dating and [b]not into the whole casual sex thing, for me.[/b][/quote]
OP, there is nothing wrong with not wanting to have sex outside of a committed relationship. Just like there is nothing wrong with wanting to have sex outside of a committed relationship.

They issue here is that will you two have a committed relationship. Do you see a future with this man? At 40 and after 3 months of dating, you should be able to judge if this is a serious relationship.

Are you dating other men? [/quote]

Op: yes, I could see a future with him. I was dating other men at the beginning but am not anymore. We are both free 2-3x/week and spend those nights together; he is also good about asking me to get together during the day. [/quote]
I think you need to move on. He knows you want a commitment, has dated you long enough, but isn’t interested. He is likely someone that just doesn’t want to deal with the drama of being you thinking that you’re in a committed relationship but in reality, he’s still keeping his options open and can sample when he pleases.[/quote]

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