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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband took a travel position wgen I was pregnant. It was a panic move and I was not happy about it. Left for first 3 week post 2 months post birth (and took no paternity leave). Traveled weeks of every month for 5 years. Our relationship never rebounded. I no longer resent him, but I also am no longer in love with him. We are coparents. With money to support the home end I might have weathered it better. Max out your paid help and take days off for yourself with a sitter when he’s away, and multi night solo trips when he’s home (and you feel like babes are old enough for you all to not be stressed). Unilateral decisions are crappy. I’m sorry this is happening. That said, you can do this. [/quote] Sorry that you went through this. I have similar feelings. I am not sure how we can get past this since I do not trust him anymore.[/quote]
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