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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  I would be fine if they were coming for a week.  I could manage 2 different one week visits.  We are talking multiple weeks, likely a month (maybe longer) because of surgery.  The kids react very differently with MIL and SIL which is why it is so disruptive.  My [b]kids will not accept[/b] that they can't sleep with them and I'm sure that MIL would complain too. I would have a month where every single night is a struggle to get them to go to bed and they wake up super early. [b]They won't listen to their parents[/b] and [b]behave crazy[/b] when MIL and SIL are here. [b]We lose all structure and routine[/b]. I also personally don't like having guests for more than a week. I would not have my own family visit for more than a week.

One of my kids is having issues at school which also makes the timing of this really bad. It has been incredibly stressful and the thought of a month of visitors gives me complete anxiety. I told SIL that June would be much better but she insists on May.

This is not the first time this has happened. They have overstayed their welcome on a number of occasions and they are aware this is an issue for me. [/quote]

Whether your SIL comes or not, you need to take on this problem (which has nothing to do with SIL and MIL).[/quote]

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