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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like this dynamic: https://www.drpsychmom.com/2014/12/28/couples-meet-counseling-4-wife-wants-annoyingly-satisfied-husband/ [/quote] I'm a DH and I recognized a lot of myself in that description! [/quote] I'm a DW and I did too! OP, how old are your kids? I can completely sympathize with your situation as I am in a very similar relationship where I do all of the planning, activities, etc and he is just as happy sitting around and watching sports all day. However, I will say that its gotten a lot better as the kids have aged as he now coaches their teams, takes them out to the driving range, takes them to movies that they all want to see and I don't (i.e. Marvel movies). He takes them to ball games and I have hours and hours by myself. I think a lot of men just don't have the desire to plan things for little kids. The thought of taking them to a kids' museum is fun for me but for him, that's just torture. He'll do it and be fine but he would definitely rather be dong other things. [/quote]
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