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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I disagree that this isn’t about the affair. Something similar happened in my family and I did the math at about 12 or 13. I was furious that my father never told the truth about how you parents divorced and my mother never ratted him out. Let her spend more time at your house and let your ex figure out how to rebuild your daughter’s trust. Tweens/teens are very sensitive to hypocrisy.[/quote] Then such tweens should be told that what happens between adults is none of their business. Your parents had no obligation to tell you. If you figure it out, you can ask for confirmation, but not use that information to throw a fit. The adults are struggling with enough stuff already. [/quote]
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