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[quote=Anonymous]OP I feel you. During the first year of DD's life I legit wished I was a single mom. DH was insufferable and unhelpful. At times downright mean, because he didn't like being told what to do (like told not to leave DD alone on the changing table). I lost it with him (yelled, floated the ide of separation which I genuinely felt would be necessary if things didn't change) a few times, and he acted like I was the worst person in the world for it. But he did start helping more after I yelled, so there is that. Eventually he got into the swing of being a parent, and I learned to pick my battles. There was a lot of bitterness on both sides for a long time. At one point when DD was around 18 months we decided to just stop talking about what happened during that first year. Marriage is reviving slowly - he really is a great dad in many ways now.[/quote]
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