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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP sounds like she is the narcissist and gaslighting to make herself the victim. Textbook narc behavior.[/quote]

Hey, I’m the OP. I’m not a narcissist - plenty of imperfections but that’s not one of them. And yes, I’m this particular instance, I do feel like the victim. Regardless, I’m certainly appreciative of your perspective that I’m not.

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Op, this quote from your initial post suggests that your family agrees, at least in part, with the stance your OP has taken.

"I resent that family there is staying with people who were so cruel to me and that members of my family continue to be so inclusive to my sibling when I am continually shut out of family events because my sibling is invited and makes clear they don't want me there (sibling is not, apparently, joining for Easter)."

It may be good to reflect on that.  Perhaps you are not as blameless as you believe.  [/quote]

Open to that and acknowledge my imperfections. As for my family shutting me out of events, they do so at the insistence of my sibling who does not want me included in events and/or threatens - apparently - not to join events if I'm invited. I make no such requests, by the way. Not sure that is an indictment of me or not but will reflect on that further.[/quote]

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