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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly, I feel like people are becoming more and more aware of the potential pitfalls of commenting on weight. It’s just a bigger part of the mainstream culture than it used to be…more articles, more conversations like this one on message boards, etc. I personally never say anything whereas a couple years ago I would have. I have a coworker who lost at least 40 pounds recently, and I still haven’t said anything because it just feels awkward. But she does look great and healthy, I am just not saying anything. So that may be why you are hearing fewer comments than in years past? [/quote] OP here-- thing is, it's not "years past!" I got comments even within the last year when it was 5, 10, 15 pounds. And certainly before that. Some of these non-commenters are the same people who did comment about smaller weight loss in 2021, and I didn't see them in between, so it wasn't gradual for them. Some are different people, but the same people who commented other times I lost a little weight, or the same type of person/relationship. Maybe it's just random. It's fine, and it's better than the alternative-- as long as I don't look bad or they aren't worried about my health![/quote]
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