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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I wrote one of the more understanding posts earlier but I really don't think you are getting it. Fights are NOT about dredging up what is really bothering you and throwing it out in a mean, nasty, unhealthy way. "Fights" should be about working things out. Making digs like that accomplishes nothing and creates bitterness for both people. You really need to rethink your approach and try to find some sensitivity about how your DH might be taking these comments. The guys who responded saw it as a low blow. Chances are your DH sees it the same way whether you think it makes sense or not. And I will tell you that it does NOT make sense to approach a problem in that way. Why can't you tell him that you would like him to make you feel wanted? Also why can't you do some things that he might see as sexy or as making an effort for him?

About your question: I have friends whose husbands really won't have sex with them no matter what they do. And they are doing NICE things to get their husbands in the mood. It can go either way. Usually it seems to be the wife who loses interest but the explicit forum is full of women who aren't getting any from their husbands. My husband and I are kind of mutually uninterested most of the time because we are tired when we see each other but he does make me feel sexy and wanted so that helps. [/quote]

Thank you, no I do get it, I was just explaining what I did, but I do understand it's not a healthy way to fight and I am going to reevaluate how I respond.  I was just surprised that it was considered SO low.  Not that I think it's right, just that I didn't think it was that bad.  But this has been eye-opening, so again, I sincerely do thank those that have been helpful!!  [/quote]

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