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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I experienced the same thing when I was single. Men can’t love you if they don’t respect you. They do not respect women that sleep with them easily. It’s a fact of nature like the birds and the bees, no matter how much people want the contrary to be true. I wanted it to be true, also, and beat my head against a brick wall until I accepted reality.  Then I used this fact to my advantage to secure a man who loves me, respects me, and really appreciates our sex a whole lot more. Many will disagree, but—worked for me![/quote]

This.

Even if it’s not respect, men are pretty simple in their thinking. There are the women they’d like to bang and the ones they love. Two totally different categories. You need at least a month of interaction to figure out which category you are in, if you care.[/quote]

And how, exactly do you propose women can distinguish which category they have been placed in after a month?[/quote]

Woman a man would like to bang: emphasis on sexual interactions, or interactions that could lead to sex. For example, drinking in bars, parties, texting late at night, making out... or if you're older, he does a courtesy 3 dates and compliments but after you don't put out he's slow to get back in touch and generally isn't interested in hanging out in circumstances that will not lead to hooking up.

Woman a man loves: interactions that will not lead to sex are still a priority for him. For example, coming to your house to move furniture with a lot of other people, coming to a work event, showing interest in your work/life/family/health as manifested by some concrete and significant investment in his time, brings you food if you are sick, wants to hang out during the day, wants to spend any time whatsoever with you even if it means coming with you when you are running errands or in the middle of something.

Men are pretty simple, actually. It is not hard to see whether the goal is simply to have sex with you or to be around you as much as possible and get to know you and be closer to you.

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