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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am the black cat of the family. I go wherever I want, do whatever I want, and no one owns me. I am the oldest. My mother will never forgive me for refusing to live my life by her rules. She'll die without forgiving me. Nothing I can do about that. You are put here to live your life, not someone else's. It takes great strength to walk away from a controlling family. I am a thousand miles away from my family, for a reason. I can never go back, nor do I want to. I am happy and free, and freedom is worth everything. [/quote]

Can I join your black cat club. (I think it's actually "black sheep" but I like the cat idea. I actually live near my mother because I was close with my dad. My mother will never forgive me for setting limits on her bat shit crazy behavior. I will no longer play therapist or let her gossip to me or bad mouth my late dad. I wish you lots of happiness. Unfortunately due to work we are stuck here. I agree, it does take great strength to walk away from a controlling family. I haven't done it, but just insisting on major boundaries has caused chaos.[/quote]

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