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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, I am working hard to set boundaries and grey rock. Unfortunately my sister is all about rivalry and controlling every relationship. She actually pushed me into a bookcase recently. She probably has undiagnosed borderline personality disorder but at this point it’s her DH’s problem. I have a loving, happy family and don’t need that in my life. [/quote] OMG. My sister has never been aggressive with me in adulthood, but she is incredibly controlling. She also had an obsession with using gifts as weapons-sending me broken items, clothes with holes and telling me she sent me a gift card-it never arrives-I mention it, never comes and cycle continued until I finally realized it was another game. She tries to control my relationship with our mom, by complaining that i didn't thank her for the broken item or something. i used to fall for it and tell mom I found it strange to receive a used broken item in the mail and then mom would say I was ungrateful and it probably broke in the mail and then somehow I was the bad guy. This is why I panic if anyone gives me a gift. My whole life I have gotten these strange mean gifts where I am the jerk if I don't say thank you.[/quote]
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