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I have a really good friend who dresses this way, and her husband loves it. For example, her wedding dress was really sexy----nothing most women would wear, nothing most women could get away with wearing either. She's fabulously fit.

When I got married, DH made it clear that while he enjoyed having the hot girlfriend, he appreciated that I was always the "marriageable" hot girlfriend. There evidently was a line that I hadn't crossed. [I should probably mention that he is now my ex-husband, huh?] It never occurred to me to wear the same type of outfits I'd worn while dating out to family get-togethers. That feels a bit disrespectful to my husband.

A lot of the low-cut stuff stopped being appropriate once I had two kids to chase after. Crouching and stooping over are great ways to engage toddlers, but I wouldn't want to play peek-a-boo with whomever else may be around.

I don't know how you could bring this up---especially if she derives pleasure from it or thinks she's pleasing you by doing it. A reference to the covered up beauty of the Mad Men ladies? Or anybody, really? Angelina Jolie tends to cover up, but is generally seen as a sex symbol. I'm at a loss since I don't know whom she admires or how sensitive she might be. Maybe just putting it on yourself a bit might work. "I need a more conservative tie for this event---you know how D.C. is!"

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