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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with the above, its ok if your 15 year old wants to sleep with you sometimes, the world is a scary place right now and has ben fro 2 years now. You seems like you are not attached to your baby and the teen years are so hard.  You should let your husband take the lead b/c he actually likes your daughter. You are an adult and irritated by this person, now imagine you are a child who has no place to go who live with someone who doesnt like them. Sh can tell that you dislike her and there is nothing you can do about its, so you should fake it and let her just get that love that child deserves from your husband. My mom was like this but she was naturally a very loving and moral person but she didn't like me, she din have it her to really like kids but her natural kindness pulled us through but it was very hard to have another who didn't like me. Thankfully my father was a natural born parent who would also lose his temper and stuff but that underlying devotion was there, with my mother she did her duty and "faked it til we made it" and it got us through. You should kind of "zoom out" and think about your daughter not from place of fear of what os going to happen to her when she doesn't develop they way she needs to but from a place of refuge for this kind of helpless person who needs you to be there for them. I'm guessing she is person who craves warmth and love and you are cold and flippant. My sister is cold and man spirited too, she was a great mom to her elementary schoolers but her eldest developed addiction issues and depression, I think there was just basic personality clash where she thinks he's weak and pathetic and needs to pull himself together and is just "over" him and he needs his mom. Its rather sad. [/quote]

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