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[quote=Anonymous]OP have you read Ross Greene's The Explosive Child? You don't describe anger and temper, but his method for communicating with your child would still be really helpful. You and your DH need to be 100% aligned on how to parent, as well. If he's resistant to family therapy sitting down with him with a third-party's plan vs. him continuing to perceive you as reactive to his parenting style might be a start. There's a lot of free resources on his website: livesinthebalance.org/parents-and-families/ I don't mean to sound like I'm advertising and obviously there's no one size fits all, but with my own very difficult kid it made a huge difference to shift perspective from reacting to/trying to change behavior to questioning - what skills does my kid lack that causes him to act like this and how can I help him build those skills?[/quote]
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