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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s a little weird if they need to do laundry at all during a short visit, but really, why does it matter? I can’t think of anything bad that would happen by mixing laundry in the washing machine. [b]It’s not like you have to sit naked on their laps while you wait for undergarments to be cleaned. That would be weird.[/b] If they’re clean enough that you can’t smell their undies while they’re visiting you, they’re clean enough to wash your clothes together without fear of your clothes becoming contaminated in the washer while they’re surrounded by soapy water. I would wonder (and still wouldn’t have a problem washing them together) if they’re having any issues with incontinence. They might not want to wait until they get home to wash if they’re afraid their clothes may smell like urine (and your clothes wouldn’t smell or have urine on them even if they had a full blown accident and tossed the pee pants in with a regular load of laundry. If that’s the issue, they’re probably embarrassed, probably already using pads or liners to protect their clothing, and they’re probably feeling less clean and more anxious being in a new place and out of their routine and not in control. A lot of older women who’ve had kids don’t realize there are things that can help with incontinence or are embarrassed to ask about it. It’s one of those things they were taught shouldn’t be discussed and are just part of what happens with age and childbearing. [/quote] Thank you for the laugh out loud![/quote]
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