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[quote=Anonymous]It sounds like they are both taking advantage of you, not just the boyfriend. When I lived with my BF, we paid a percentage of rent based on income. IMO the BF should be the one paying more in rent since he has a job. I’d think through some sort of structure to lower the amount you contribute. Something like: “That’s so wonderful you two have found each other. Now that you’re living together, we need to contribute less to your housing bill so we can fund our retirement, etc. Let us know how you two plan to handle finances going forward. We will continue to pay your portion of housing as long as you’re enrolled in school, but we don’t believe we should pay housing costs for both of you.” [/quote]
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