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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, the issue is not that you don't have siblings, but 1) that your mother failed to set aside sufficient resources; and/or 2) that you do not have an adequate emotional support network and imagine those of us with sibling do by default. I am sorry about your situation, but please don't extrapolate your circumstances as any sort of universal truth about the superiority of multi-child families. [/quote] You are dense. Yes, money makes thinks a lot easier, but it is not all. My MIL has tons of mo ey put aside for her care, but the day to day grind, dealing with ALL the decisions pertinent to her care, her demands, her dementia, her falls a,d visits to the hospital, her calls at 3, 4, 5 am, etc... Everything is on him. He is adamant he wants at least one other childso we don't put our daughter in this position in the figure - if things don't work out, at least we tried....[/quote]
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