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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op you sound like someone who for whatever reason is emotionally walled off from having a deep meaningful emotional relationship with another person and you've basically half heartedly trying but not really.  Adoption or single momhood is not a substitute for what you don't have any claim you dont need. Sounds like at some point along the way you just missed the boat.  I wouldthink you should get therapy before considering fostering or adopting because those things aren't a substitute for a relationship with an adult partner.  Kids are not pets or toys to comfort your loneliness.[/quote]

Thank you for your comment! I do have really deep and meaningful relationships, they’re just with family members, friends, and children, and aren’t of the romantic sort. I’m not seeking to have children and foster/adopt to fulfill some deep seated lack of emotional relationships. I’m aiming to do so because I actually like children, want children, and also want to help children who already exist out in this world and are in the system through no fault of their own. The last thing I am is lonely, and I’m really happy with my life right now, and the aspirations I have for my future, come what may. [/quote]

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